we had to make a trip to Valencia this week to see a heart specialist.
It was last year this week that it all started. I was in a doctor's
office for an ultrasound on my heart. When he finished, he informed me
that it was time for open heart surgery. Wednesday, almost exactly one
year later, we spent the morning in Valencia at the pediatric heart
specialist center. But this time, I wasn't the one on the table, it
was David. Let me fill in some of the details.
Back in September, we signed him up to play soccer on a team. He was  
so excited to get his uniform and start going to practice. We took him  
to a doctor to get a physical exam. Maribel was with the other kids,  
and I stayed with David in the doctor's office. It seemed strange to  
me that he was taking so long with the stethoscope. The thought  
actually entered my mind, "What if he is hearing some problem in the  
heart?" Of course I dismissed this as silly. When David was born we  
were very concerned about whether or not he had a heart problem. But  
the doctor told us that his heart was completely normal. And no doctor  
along the way had noticed anything strange. However, when this doctor  
finished listening, he told me that he couldn't sign the form because  
David has a heart murmur. The news hit both of us like a load of  
bricks. I had been out of the hospital for only three months, and  
David had just seen everything that I had gone through in my surgery.  
We walked away from there in silence, father and son immersed in our  
own thoughts. I still remember very well my doctor's visit at 14 when  
they told me that I had to stop playing sports. At the time it seemed  
like crushing news. And now I could see it rolling over my son, but at  
the age of 9.
Well, they told David that he could practice with the team, although  
he couldn't play in the games because his physical was not signed yet.  
And we started working on getting an appointment with a heart  
specialist. At one point, we even went to a different doctor who  
listened to him, didn't hear anything, and thus signed his physical.  
That allowed David to play at least in a few games with his team. But  
there was still something there. The only question was how severe it  
would be. Last week they gave us an appointment to go to Valencia.
So on Wednesday morning we got the kids up at 6.00 am so we could make  
it to the hospital by 9.00. When we arrived and checked in, they  
started doing all of the tests: electro, chest X-rays, and then  
finally ultrasound. The doctors have rated his condition as moderate  
to severe. His valve seems to have the same basic problem as mine had,  
but just the opposite: mine didn't open well, and his doesn't close  
well. Mine affected the aorta as the blood shot out through a smaller  
opening, causing the aorta to expand. David's valve does not close  
well, causing the ventricle to receive too much blood, and therefore  
expand. The doctor told us that his ventricle is roughly the size of  
an adult ventricle. This means that they are looking at doing surgery  
to fix this problem. The heart specialist will see him again in eight  
months and then they will begin to talk about dates for surgery. Her  
first comment was that it was a question of months. But then she said  
that it could possibly wait a year or maybe two.
David has been taking it very well. I sat down with him and talked to  
him about it. His only answer to me was, "Daddy, I know God wanted it  
this way." We are praying for God to do something special, if it is  
His will. Please pray with us too about this.
For church we had a slightly smaller service this week. It was  
election day, and it turned out that Maria Eugenia was still  
registered to vote in Torrevieja, so she took Sergio and went to vote  
and spend the day there with family there. Lorenzo and Ana María were  
in the service. We talked about the fruit of the Spirit as compared to  
the works of the flesh. Our liberty in Christ is not an occasion for  
the flesh. It is an opportunity for the Spirit to produce fruit in our  
lives.
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